November 16, 2019

There is that special moment when two people click, rather than simply meet. Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Crown Business, $ (p). The following summary of Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman’s book ‘Click – The magic of instant connections’ is courtesy of Paul Arnold. The Book: Click: The Magic of Instant Connections by Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Broadway Books, $ Hardcover, Pages, June.

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He recommends asking questions like: Their book is part of a growing genre that I consider MBA junk science, the distillation of lite social science into recipes for corporate success.

And our theory is that you develop really a magical connection and magic is not a word that we use in business. It was more like a really tough experience. There was a very interesting study looking at soldiers and looking at who they bonded with.

How To Click With People

You want to be in a place where you feel mastery and at the same time challenged and at the same time present enough to pay attention to the other people in the surrounding. He interviews 7, people a year, auditions, 7, people a year. Can we replicate it? This book is an easy read and in my mind, covers a very important of how to get along with other people. From the cover and tone this was a more mid-market title, shorn of the pretension of more lofty popular science, but it didn’t have enough personality for it to live long in the memory.

It was as if each was attuned to what the other was thinking. The breezy style is a great advantage of the book though: The seven accelerators are vulnerability, proximity, resonance, similarity, environme The ability of people to just get along straight away is one of those things that is a mystery that has fascinated psychologists and sociologists for years. We’d be fools not to learn what they have to teach us.


And so when they go into a job interview they are always a little bit out of flow.

The team had taken over bragman office building in Pasadena; the work was so intense that the office remained open twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. Nadia’s initial reaction to him appeared to oei very different, however. Turns out that people who are in, say first year of college, or first year of boot camp, are much more likely to form long term interconnections with folks. If we are in business and we get in to a meeting with someone and we say, oh our website is still not doing so well, can we partner up.

How To Click With People – with Ori Brafman – Mixergy

Ori and Rom Brafman are the authors of one of my favorite books, Swaywhich discussed the psychological influences that affect decision-making. Ori and Rom Brafman have done a terrific job of illuminating deep-seated tendencies that skew our behavior in ways that can range from silly to deadly. Connective emotional brafmaan is rare. So the question is, so of course is, so this is a natural trait, some people are more high self monitors than others, what can we do to [learn from these high]connection [IB]?

‘Click’: That Magical Instant Connection Explained : NPR

However, in those teams of people who had already clicked together, they were much more robust in their arguments with each other as the level of trust previously developed allowed a more open, honest and expansive conversation — without becoming personal.

Really try to delve in there, again in a natural way. The four women then attended university lectures. When I used them, I wrote a description of the design I needed and how much I was willing to pay.

It really matters to have a clearly defined community. The second element that really helps is kind of intuitive, is joint suffering, or joint adversity.

In his book, Click, Ori Brafman explains the factors that determine whether a chance encounter vrafman the makings of a lasting relationship. Exactly because he has already seen us once, we are already more familiar with each other.


Summary of Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman’s book ‘Click – The magic of instant connections’

Great book of the power of making connections with people. When not writing, Ori Brafman is an organizational business consu About the book: This is what it was like to see my best friend die in combat. Where maybe you have to sit a little bit closer to each other? Not entirely the same.

The same thing happened when people were told that they had similar fingerprint pattern, which again, why should a fingerprint pattern, just because you and I have similar patterns on our fingerprints, why should that make me more likely to give you money and to help you out in editing? But Paul, instead of becoming defensive, was intrigued. One would never suspect that the two were ostensibly meeting for work. There is an immediate sense of familiarity, and conversation flows easily, without embarrassing pauses or self-consciousness.

In behavioral psychology, in business research, in team work and said okay what makes teams official? When it comes to clicking, spatial proximity also plays a part. And it would mean something to me to be one of your investments… in your investment portfolio and here is why.

This pri a great book about the magic we sometimes feel when strongly connecting with others and how to bring that to more connections!

I wanted the information so I could use it in my characterizations, but it’s also brilliant for every other aspect of life where we clidk with people. We had to go to very different disciplines. This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. And because they become a little more resonant themselves and it feels so good.